Ending Grief

Amy has two sons that have gone off to war.  One son is on the frontlines in Iraq the other is on the frontlines in Afghanistan.  Some part of Amy was always worried about the safety of her sons.  A couple of days before this video game he found out that her friend of her sons who was a chopper pilot for the military in Afghanistan had died.  This boy was part of the family; sleepovers, parties, and vacations.

First was a shock of losing someone that you loved.  Secondly, the war seemed a lot more deadly.  Third it brought into focus how much danger as sons were in.  Amy was grief stricken when it came in for a coaching session.  It was obvious no coaching was going to happen today.  Using some powerful Neuro-Linguistic Programming techniques I helped Amy transform that deep grief into sadness.  Normally, grief can go on for months and sometimes for years.  What we were able to do for Amy was make the whole situation manageable so should be there for family and supporters sons.